“You Can’t Handle the Truth!”

Until we see what we are, we cannot take steps to become what we should be.
~Charlotte P. Gilman

Anyone who has coached with me has heard me say over and over again, “We cannot get to where you want to go until we define where you are now.”  Many of us have goals.  We have aspirations of what type of person we would like to become, places we would like to visit, our ideal career, the amount of money we would like to have…you name it, we know for the most part where we want to be in the future.  Now, ask that same person about their present situation; how they like their job, why they have a habit of never keeping their word, why they cheat, or even as simple as how their marriage is and the answer is either a blank stare or a platitude of some sort to avoid the question.

Why is it that we avoid the truth of who we are?  Maybe its embarrassment because down deep we know we can do better or maybe it’s that we fear who we really can be if we just let go of the fear?  Either way, the only way you can move forward in life is to look straight in your own eyes, define the type of person you have allowed yourself to become (good or bad) and make a choice.  A choice to change, a choice to move on and a choice to finally live the life you were born to live.

You know what you are here to do.  Yes, you do.  It is that feeling in the pit of your gut that nags at you all day long.  That feeling that comes directly from the things you dream about that bring you joy.  The feeling that comes when you are doing that “thing” that you can do for hours, non-stop and lose all sense of time.  Stop telling yourself it is impossible, that you “can’t” because you have responsibilities, that you are too old, that you had a bad childhood, that if your parents would have been different you could, that if you weren’t in this relationship you could…STOP!  What do you want to do?  Who do you want to be? Start believing in yourself and do something about it instead of spending endless hours reading and watching others live their dreams.  How many lives do you think you have?  This is not a dress rehearsal.

Shift from Entitlement to Humility; Control to Trust; Attachment to Letting Go; Fear to Faith.

Our Deepest Fear…

is not that we are inadequate,
our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?”
Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.
It is not just in some of us,
it is in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

~ Marianne Williamson

Honoring the truth,

Chris

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Chris Sopa is founder and owner of Chris Sopa International, Inc. You can learn more about her at www.ChrisSopa.com. Find her at Facebook.com/ChrisSopaInternational, Twitter @ChrisSopa, LinkedIn, and .

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